i think.. if you’re lucky enough to have found & formed a new family.. whether you happen to be of the same gender.. or of the opposite sex-
you’ve found u’r para-wife, para-husband, u’r para spouse.
most importantly.. it should be legally recognized.
if it is true..and, if it is real. and, if the relationship is dedicated.
people all cry for definition, recognition & a place of comfortable acceptability..
para- is everything it seems, and more.
it’s a title not coasted into – or, one to b taken for granted.. or, an accident of birth.
it’s an honor of choice.
i feel very fortunate to be a friend- a para sister.. to some of the most exquisite (to me) people
here on this earth.